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r/truenarcissisticabuse
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From the rules · Mods explicitly ban posts from narcissists/videos of them and any callouts or links to other communities.
Links
No explicit link policy. Default to no URL: link-plus-young-account is one of the most common automated removal patterns on Reddit.
What this community rewards
Dominant post formats: story, question, discussion
Headline = short first-person emotional statement or question (e.g., “Worried my boyfriend is a narcissist”, “Celebrating one week no contact”). Post in first person, give personal details and timeline (typical length: a few hundred words). Tone: vulnerable, non-judgmental, seeking validation or advice. Upvoted: honest experiences, clear questions, coping milestones. Removed: callouts, meta/argumentative posts, links to other communities or posts that appear to be from the narcissist.
Arriving in the local format matters: cross-posting the same text everywhere reads as tourist instantly. The wider method is in the Reddit playbook.
Classified mechanically from the community's published rules and recent top posts, last checked August 2026. Rules change and moderators have the final say: verify at r/truenarcissisticabuse's rules page before posting anything that matters.
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