Subreddit rules check
r/relationships
Can you promote here?
Promotion is allowed only with moderator permission (or inside designated threads). A short, honest modmail before posting costs two minutes and functions as a safe-conduct pass; skipping it is the most common avoidable removal.
From the rules · No AI-generated content or links/photos; crossposting content from here (including to your own page) is an instant ban.
Links
Links are prohibited in posts or comments. Name things in plain text; interested readers will search.
What this community rewards
Dominant post formats: story, question, discussion
Headline: a short situational summary. Write in first person, include ages, genders and relationship length, state the desired outcome, and finish with a TL;DR. Typical length: a few focused paragraphs (200–700 words). Tone: earnest, neutral, help-seeking. Posts that give clear context and a specific question get upvoted; rants, polls, off-topic or poorly formatted posts (no TL;DR, no details) get removed.
Arriving in the local format matters: cross-posting the same text everywhere reads as tourist instantly. The wider method is in the Reddit playbook.
Classified mechanically from the community's published rules and recent top posts, last checked August 2026. Rules change and moderators have the final say: verify at r/relationships's rules page before posting anything that matters.
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