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r/r4r
Can you promote here?
The written rules take no clear position, which is NOT permission: unclear communities enforce norms through removals instead of rulebooks. Sort by top, study which builder posts survived and how they were framed, and when in doubt ask the mods.
From the rules · Use the community title format (age/gender/looking-for + location tags like #online or city).
Links
No explicit link policy. Default to no URL: link-plus-young-account is one of the most common automated removal patterns on Reddit.
What this community rewards
Dominant post formats: question, story, discussion
Headline: start with age/gender tag and location (e.g. "26 [F4M] #online - short hook"). Write in first person, casual and confessional; 1–3 short paragraphs (50–200 words). Open with who you are, state what you want (friendship/FWB/relationship), give concrete interests/boundaries, and a friendly call-to-action. Tone: honest, slightly funny or vulnerable; avoid overt advertising or external links.
Arriving in the local format matters: cross-posting the same text everywhere reads as tourist instantly. The wider method is in the Reddit playbook.
Classified mechanically from the community's published rules and recent top posts, last checked October 2026. Rules change and moderators have the final say: verify at r/r4r's rules page before posting anything that matters.
Thread Otter checks this before every send
These profiles power the product: promo-banned communities never receive a promotional draft, drafts arrive in the local format, and a fact-check gate plus human pacing protect the account doing the talking.