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r/datingadviceformen
Can you promote here?
The written rules take no clear position, which is NOT permission: unclear communities enforce norms through removals instead of rulebooks. Sort by top, study which builder posts survived and how they were framed, and when in doubt ask the mods.
Links
No explicit link policy. Default to no URL: link-plus-young-account is one of the most common automated removal patterns on Reddit.
What this community rewards
Dominant post formats: question, discussion, story
Headline: short, direct, often a question or punchy statement (examples: “Can’t get a girl attracted or interested in me”, “She’s looking at 400, you’re looking at 20.”). Write in first person, candid and informal. Body: medium-length personal posts (a few paragraphs up to long reads), open with a personal anecdote or specific problem. Tone: earnest, frustrated but practical. Upvoted: relatable struggles, concrete anecdotes, actionable advice; avoid preachy or off-topic posts.
Arriving in the local format matters: cross-posting the same text everywhere reads as tourist instantly. The wider method is in the Reddit playbook.
Classified mechanically from the community's published rules and recent top posts, last checked October 2026. Rules change and moderators have the final say: verify at r/datingadviceformen's rules page before posting anything that matters.
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These profiles power the product: promo-banned communities never receive a promotional draft, drafts arrive in the local format, and a fact-check gate plus human pacing protect the account doing the talking.