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r/crushes
Can you promote here?
The written rules take no clear position, which is NOT permission: unclear communities enforce norms through removals instead of rulebooks. Sort by top, study which builder posts survived and how they were framed, and when in doubt ask the mods.
Links
No explicit link policy. Default to no URL: link-plus-young-account is one of the most common automated removal patterns on Reddit.
What this community rewards
Dominant post formats: story, discussion, question
Headline: short, emotional, often ALL CAPS or an exclamation. Post in first person as a confession or question. Typical length: one short paragraph to a few paragraphs. Tone: casual, vulnerable, excited or devastated. What gets upvoted: sincere confessions, feel‑good outcomes, relatable angst. Open with a hook (I confessed…, I’m so down bad, SHE SAID YES). Avoid long analytical essays — keep it immediate and personal.
Arriving in the local format matters: cross-posting the same text everywhere reads as tourist instantly. The wider method is in the Reddit playbook.
Classified mechanically from the community's published rules and recent top posts, last checked October 2026. Rules change and moderators have the final say: verify at r/crushes's rules page before posting anything that matters.
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